Easter and Eid al Fitr celebrations mark the end of fasting days that made us closer to God. This should not be the end of our good habits that we started during the last days, but the beginning of better days.

During celebrations, people often involve visiting family and friends, exchanging gifts, feasting, dressing in new clothes, and having meals together. But this year we will be enjoying the celebrations in different ways than before, we will be celebrating ourselves and our achievements.

Celebrating Achievements

Celebrating a significant occasion, such as an anniversary, a birthday, a promotion, or your high grades, may make you feel wonderful. And when someone else takes the time to recognize your accomplishments, it might be even better.

Celebrating your successes involves celebrating who you are. It is simple to focus on individuals around you while ignoring your own accomplishments, but it is time to take the opportunity to appreciate how far you’ve come and achieved by doing something to yourself; either by going out to dinner with friends, buying something you’ve always wanted, or pampering yourself.

When you celebrate achievements, whether you have just accomplished a little or a significant objective, your self-esteem is boosted. It also enables you to reflect on all the effort you put into achieving a task or objective. Celebrating success may inspire more motivation and boost confidence. The act of celebrating your achievements, no matter how big or small, boosts self-confidence and prevents burnout.

Every accomplishment you make advances your entire passion and ambition. Without all the little but significant victories, you would not have reached this point. There is a chance that motivation and commitment may fade if you never express gratitude for something well done (or if you do it in a way that seems forced, unjust, or improper).

Giving and Receiving

Many people associate this time of year with gift-giving. We all generally view this time of year as positive; we frequently experience sentiments of joy, love, connection, and energy. From a position of love, give. Don’t ask for anything in return; just give.

This time you should celebrate differently, the next time you give, ask yourself why you are giving and think about its genuine significance. You could be motivated to contribute by a variety of impulses and feelings, such as kindness or remorse. No need to judge, just notice and see what comes up. Your unconscious self may be the source of a lot of your behavior, leading to automatic reactions. You’ll be better able to recognize and implement changes that can advance your development as a person the more conscious you can become of your thoughts and actions.

Receiving is necessary and important. Even though it feels great to give, giving only works when there is a receiver. Being a gracious receiver is a hard process, yet it is also a genuine act of love since it gives others the possibility to contribute. Receiving is not about assuming that since you are more important or deserving than someone else, they should give to you. It is about accepting a gift without feeling guilty or dependent upon it or obligated to repay it.

The action of giving and receiving has a powerful impact on relationships, not only with others but with yourself as well. Think about your past experiences with giving and receiving. After some consideration, you may realize that you are better at one than the other. Both giving and receiving are manifestations of the same universal energy flow. So, it’s important to be a good giver and receiver.

“When we give cheerfully and accept gratefully, everyone is blessed.”

Maya Angelou